We are all much too familiar with things in life that disturb our inner peace. News reports, family pressures, personal failures – any number of challenges like these can cause a steady stream of stressful thoughts that make it more difficult to be productive.
I’ve sometimes resorted to putting negative or stressful thoughts out of my mind as a way to continue functioning when life is busy and there are multiple demands on my time. But where does a bothersome thought go once I put it out of my mind? I’ve had to be careful that the offending idea doesn’t then go into my body and cause problems there.
I’ve proven to myself that I can’t always ignore a problem to death. I’ve noticed that my head might be able to deny the problem but my body does keep track. It manifests that record by showing up with tension, digestive issues, aches and pains, and in a weird sort of echo back to the mind, anxiety and depression.
So for me, putting stressful thoughts out of my mind does not solve the issue. It only drives it deeper inside where it can sometimes be more difficult to identify and deal with. I’ve found it healthier, both emotionally and physically, to take the time and effort necessary to sort through my challenges, understand them, and give them their proper due, instead of pretending they don’t exist.
Such a good reminder. It’s tricky to find that balance between dealing with the negative emotions (not stuffing them) and getting stuck in them.
“I’ve noticed that my head might be able to deny the problem but my body does keep track.” –YES! That’s so true. Psyched to have found your blog from Twitterland and looking forward to reading more soon. 🙂